Vulnerability is not weakness; it is our greatest courage.
—Brene Brown
Employee Spotlight: Jordan Crosby, LMFT
Tell Us About You.
My name is Jordan, and I am one of the therapists here at EOS. I'm originally from Columbia, but I've spent my adult life enjoying living in the Upstate. I've worked in higher education, public school, non-profits, community mental health, and private practice settings.
What Do You Enjoy Most About Evolution of Self Counseling?
I really value how knowledgable my colleagues are. EOS prioritizes using evidence-based treatments, so I enjoy hearing from other staff about the work they do and seeing how I can better implement evidence-based practices into my own work.
What is A Career Highlight or Success?
My clients are really amazing people who overcome so much. When I think of the highlights, I think of my clients who've graduated from high school or college, left unhealthy relationships, gotten full-time jobs, finally get to be true to themselves, been able to get medical conditions managed, get out of debt, and many more examples. I know all of the work that it took behind the scenes to get to those accomplishments, and I'm very proud of my clients for creating healthy change in their lives.
What Motivates You?
I'm primarily motivated by relationships. I hold a lot of respect and honor for the relationships this job allows me to have with my clients, their supporters, and my colleagues. I believe we are a culmination of all of the relationships we have, and it's important that we maintain them.
What are Your Self-Care Must Dos?
I’m a big believer in the power of music (listening to it, playing it on the piano, and collecting it on vinyl), journaling, photography, ingesting anything Marvel, and going to national and state parks.
What is Your Favorite Song or Favorite Quote?
Jordan being Jordan, could not pick just one!
“Time makes you bolder”
—Fleetwood Mac
“Landslide”
“Landslide” is a beautifully poignant song by Fleetwood Mac that captures the essence of introspection and the passage of time. The lyrics reflect on themes of change, growth, and the emotional weight of facing life’s challenges. With a gentle melody and heartfelt vocals, it resonates deeply with listeners, encouraging them to contemplate their own journeys and the transformations they experience throughout life. The song remains a timeless classic, offering comfort and connection to those who find themselves at a crossroads.
“There'll be happiness after you
But there was happiness because of you
Both of these things can be true
There is happiness”
— Taylor Swift
"Happiness" is an uplifting anthem that explores the pursuit of joy in a complex world. With its infectious melody and heartfelt lyrics, the song encourages listeners to embrace their emotions, celebrate the small moments, and find light even in challenging times. The harmonious blend of rhythmic beats and thoughtful verses serves as a reminder that happiness is not just a destination but a journey shaped by perspective and connection. Dive into this musical experience that invites you to reflect, rejoice, and rediscover the essence of true happiness.
What is a Turning Point in Your Life?
When I was 19, I *majorly* bombed an important math exam, and at that time, that was one of the biggest failures I had ever experienced. It really took that moment for me to realize I wasn’t studying what I valued.
Switching my major solely because of my own interests and needs seemed so risky at the time, but there’s no sign that you need to change something like a 17 on a final exam. I made all As and Bs after that though! Now, I’m very grateful for that failure because it was a lesson to me that it’s okay to fail so long as you learn from it and move forward with a plan.
What are Clients Saying About Jordan?
“Jordan is so fun and positive when talking about difficult things. He has a spin on things that makes me want to know more. He’s always helping us understand and is so thoughtful when answering questions. I appreciate the resources he shares. He is so warm and easy to talk to.”
“Jordan is highly skilled, and his compassionate nature really helps clients accept themselves while working towards change. His validation skills are awesome. He is a bad *** and he doesn’t take any ****.”
“I have had a really hard time connecting with therapists in the past. I felt like they didn’t get me or understand me, at times. Jordan was different. I felt like he really understood where I was coming from, which made such a big difference in what changes I was willing to make in therapy.”
“Jordan is a great therapist for a range of ages because he is very personable. He is very good at being natural and easy to talk to while still keeping you doing what you need to do to get better. An overall perfect balance of care and order.”
“I think Jordan is fantastic. He is so cool and organized, and he seems to really care about his clients. He’s also straightforward and always attends to my needs if I bring up a concern.”
What are Colleagues Saying About Jordan?
“Jordan is a joy to work with each day. He is always willing to share new resources and current happenings within our community. He brings a fun, calming energy to every conversation. I am so thankful to have such a great colleague and referral source in Jordan!”
— Aubrey Grinstead, LPC-A
“I have worked with Jordan for several years in several different settings, and as a colleague and a friend, I have found Jordan to be a real asset! He has a way of making people feel at ease in his presence. He is smart, quick witted, and keeps me cracking up! As a therapist, he is top-notch and goes the extra mile to ensure that he is providing the best care. He is a trusted and knowledgeable colleague and consultant on a number of different topics. I wouldn’t want to do Evolution of Self without him!”
— Emily Williams, LPC/S, LAC/S, MAC, CS
Executive Director
“Jordan is truly the best. He’s so resourceful, kind, and very easy to engage with. I’m so thankful to be working alongside him!”
— Margaret Cross, LPC-A
Jordan focuses on helping his clients feel secure, understood and empowered, allowing his clients to focus on doing and feeling better. This combination makes him a truly remarkable clinician.
— Theresa Wheeler, LPC/S, LAC/S, MAC, CS
Executive Director